For Julie

Submitted by Zella (United States), Apr 11, 2010 at 21:19

Time has a way of healing wounds. Just give yourself a chance. Sometimes it's better to just tell yourself that people do the best they can do. Their "best" is not always our "best" but this man is doing the best that he can do. Respecting women is a skill that this man doesn't have,has never had, and never will have. He is a sociopath and is narcissistic. Using people is his game.

This man is perfectly happy waiting tables. The job affords him an opportunity to work until around midnight, hang-out with his friends all night, sleep until early afternoon, get up and repeat the cycle all over again. The only difference between what he did in Moroc and in the U.S. is that most likely he didn't workin Moroc.

Take care of yourself and forget about this selfish, egotistical person. Forget about the woman that he is "using." This woman sounds "trashy" to me and you shouldn't even worry about her. Worry about your own needs. Good Luck.

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