For SCAMS: It's just dumb and dangerous for some women to put a name up.

Submitted by Got Smart Fast (United States), Apr 24, 2010 at 08:30

Ummm SCAMS - why didn't you post your REAL name here?? Just curious.....I think because you enjoy a measure of privacy? Just because a woman made a mistake in her life doesn't mean we are all invited in to know everything about her. The purpose of posting our stories here is to let other's know what is going on, and also how to be able to prevent it from happening to other's. When your educated about what's happening you don't need anybody's name because your gonna recognize the game and get out fast. I see it differently from you, posting names is intentionally sucking yourself back in to a situation that you want out of. I don't want my ex to find me, he is ABUSIVE. And I don't want anyone who knows him because they are with him right now to go back and get my name in his mouth again. Who knows how delusional the other woman is? No thank you, I don't wanna know. It's just dumb and dangerous for some women to put a name up. I will say, however, if you have never met the man, and it's an internet relationship that has you worried, by all means go for it - post his name, or rather the name he tells you is his - LOL. I think your under the impression that it's a handful of men doing this to women, when in reality it thousands upon thousands a year. Most men are not even giving these women their correct name anyway. Especially the one's who get these "Urfri" or "Muta" marriages.

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