Hon, if you are having to ask us this question...

Submitted by ANONYMOUSXXXXXX (United States), Apr 25, 2010 at 12:51

then you obviously don't know this guy well enough. After being married to a Moroccan man for almost 3 years (we are in process of divorce), I would say you had better get to know him better. Our problem (other than many such as his anger management issues) is that he wants to live a Moroccan lifestyle while married. That means hanging out with his buddies Friday and Saturday nights, talking on the phone constantly, not being affectionate, and wanting me to pay for most everything. Look before you leap. Mine changed as soon as we were married and it's been very hard to live with him. I am set in my ways as is he. He's young and finding himself, I'm lots older and already know what I want. I have only seen a one or two who are good hubbies, and those stay away from other Moroccan men. My two dirhams worth. Sounds like you don't know this guy at all. Are you getting married here? How long have you known him? Look at all the issues before you marry....

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