Well here is a name

Submitted by justthisone (United States), Apr 27, 2010 at 18:47

SMEmam, dob: 1/23?/1978 in PA ...originally from Cairo Egypt...his family: Mom is Nadia, sister is Shereen, brother is Ibrahim. I stayed with him in Cairo and he followed me here. He pressured me the first months he came here to marry quickly but I was uneasy. I wasn't going to be just for a greencard. When I wouldn't marry, he quickly married another woman ... in Sharpsville in PA within two months of knowing I wasn't going to be rushed. Sometimes they say Immigration won't listen to an ex because they think she is just upset or jealous. I just don't wish for anyone else to have to go through what I did. He never told me he married this woman, he strung me along for a year and even came to seem me for weeks at a time, stayed with me right after he married her (that first week he married her.) I wasn't told until a year after they married just so he could either have sex with me, have me around for companionship or to build him up when he was down and to co-sponsor him. By the way, he forge paystubs to get me to co-sponsor him.

I really didn't know what to do or how to protect myself and honestly, right after everything happened, I just wanted it all to go away. I really wish justice though and to be free of all of it. He never lived with this ... except for three weeks in transition from after he left me and he'd go back and forth a few times on the major hilidays I guess to take pictures for immigration. Of course he also came to see me a few times during that year after he'd married her. I was told he spent Thanksgiving with the woman he married in the mosque in Lancaster last year and then he spent a few days in Sharpsville with his real wife for Christmas. Someone told me before he was issued a Visa he has to sign something saying he would not commit Bigamy while in the states...so ummm who knows?

So in Lancasters, he continued to call me everyday, saying he loved me but married a woman in the mosque as well as had his real wife etc...Do you get the picture? Anyway, as far as I know, his real wife knew about both of us girls even though we didn't know he was with us both for a period, at the same time. The one he married knew it was for a greencard. He called me from last August til December trying to get me to meet him and he'd always say she wasn't his real wife, that it was only for a greencard if I pushed him saying well, he had a wife. She wrote an email while he was living with me that had said, if I didn't marry him in time, then she would marry him as friends so he could stay legally.

She knew from the beginning it was an agreement and not the love kind with him. I guess she'd hoped with time he'd love her and she really loved him...and he used that to the fullest. She loves him and will continue to this day to lie for him. Maybe she is afraid she will get introuble but I think she always thought if she was loyal to him, he'd finally see her. mHe just wanted that green card. Now that immigration has asked for a second interview he has decided to divorce her...I guess, it's just what i hear. so here's to immigration. I also heard he was going back to Egypt for 7 weeks and his soon to be divorced greencard ride was going for a few weeks for pictures...you know to show immigration. I guess to insinuate they tried, or they worked on the marriage, to give some kind of authentication so they will somehow look legit.

Even though several people have reported him and there seems to be definite proof of his deceptive ways he still seems to think he can pull it past the Government. Who knows. Up til now he's always gotten his way...scamming right and left. He used all of the women for his own purposes, taken money and personal items and will continue to do so because he couldn't give a care for anyone other than himself. And as for me, he deceived, lied,took material as well as money and forged fake paystubs to use me as a joint sponsor for him. He even sold my personal computer for money I hear... that he took and refused to ever give back to me because of course, he had nothing, no money, no means of communication, is what he told me, all the while he was scamming other women out of their paycheck. Life's crazy...what these men can get away with and who knows if the Government will ever finally stop him. He is a big game player isn't he?

Yes all of us women were stupid ...trusting...and yeah the majority of us learned there are a bunch of bad people out there. :)

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