The thing about people like this

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Apr 27, 2010 at 23:25

is that they don't always give up if they have something to gain by it.

His behaviour of trying to contact you over and over again is actually rather common. I've been in distance/on-line relationships with women before who at one point will ignore and tell me to pretend I never knew them, and then months later write me a message telling me that she wants to get back together with me.

They do it for one simple reason---because it works. Good old wear and tear persistency is a technique that men have been using for ages to impress women.

The best thing you can do is not only block and ignore him, but go out and get away from your computer and cell phone. Those can be like traps, and it's what he is counting what he wants.

Women also use it and it works for them as well.

As such, I'm sure that European women have taken advantage of these sex vacations and have probably hurt countless men in their adventures, but if you're going to play around with sex or play house, that's the risk you take.

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