To Victoria

Submitted by Got Smart Fast (United States), Apr 30, 2010 at 21:50

Did you know Muslims are not suppose to date? There is no such thing as Boyfriend/Girlfriend in Islam. Just an FYI for you. There is also not suppose to be any premarital sex - another no-no. If a man can't take you to his home to meet his family, you probably shouldn't be with him. It's as simple as that. And why would you accept that anyway? It's humiliating. If a man from your neighborhood wouldn't take you to meet this mom who lives around the corner, you wouldn't make any excuses for him, you'd more than likely leave the relationship. You'd find it weird and some suspicion would fall on him. Don't make the mistake of making these foreign men any different than any other men. Use your same rules for all men. Islam doesn't make them holier or better or more loving than the next guy. His family would want him to marry a Persian woman for sure and the fact that you can't be taken home means he is up to something you may not want to find out about later after you convert to Islam to keep him and marry him.

If youre thinking of converting to be accepted, it won't work. If it would work he'd just tell you that you need to be Muslim to go home to the family, and take you home wearing a head scarf that is if he really wanted you that bad. 1. Muslim men can marry a woman of a monolithic religion (Jewish, Christian, Muslim). They all use the same line "I don't care if you convert or not" and " I am not religious, I just do Islam for the family sake". When the babies come, your lack of being Muslim will be a reason to lose your kids, especially if you live in a Muslim country. (Sharia Law), in a non-Muslim country it will eventually make you worthless to him because you can't raise his kids right - right meaning MUSLIM. 2. Muslim men are allowed 4 wives. he can change them like underwear to his pleasure. Your not gonna be as good as that Muslim wife and her kids - EVER. 3. If your older than him or have kids already, RUN.

Muslim men usually end up marrying younger women from their country in the end. If your older than him, your a meal ticket or visa ticket. You will be his new "mommy" until you run out of cash, resources, or patience. If you'll change your core beliefs for anyone, you hold yourself cheaply. If you not good enough as is at this moment, you never will be. Take good care of yourself Victoria ...listen to debatetv.org from 8PM to 12AM EST (you can actually call in and ask an Islamic Scholar questions and get the truth. If you have a Quran, keep it close by when you call so you can read the truth to any question he answers for you. It's a live show) It will give you insight into Islam. Arming yourself with truth before you go any further is a smart thing to do. You owe yourself that.

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