We are both or maybe more comfussed now

Submitted by Rachell (Ecuador), May 5, 2010 at 22:04

Hi I don't really know what to say, I'm in the same situation, I have received many comments about this, %99 are bad and only 0ne told me that I have to take the risk if I feel real love, I think that not only muslim men are bad husbands if we don't have luck we can find a bad husband next to our homes, everybody says that muslim men are bad and they tell many bad stories but I really think there are many good stories too and They are happy and they don't have problems or fear ,so, they don't write here.I know that the rules of muslim are so different and harder than ours and that is our fear. If we get married and have children they will have the right to stay with the children if there is a divorce and the bad thing is that we always think of bad things , divorce , problems, defferent religion, different costums, and Why don't we think of good things?,

a successfull marriage, a happy life, an inconditional love, a hard love which can survive every different things that we have, I want to do that, i wanna think of good things, I wanna believe that I'm a lucky person who found a great love thanks my God I wanna be possitive cause if I don't take the risk i will be confussed all my life, I was in love with a man who lives near my house and He hurt me so much cause he was with another woman and He treated me badfull I suffered a lot and finally I found a man who is muslim and wants to marry me in four months, He wants to take that risk too cause he wants to live here in my country, but the problem is ; the man who I loved so much realizes that he loves me and he is all time around me, caring me helping me and my family wants me to marry him cause we know his family and he does everything for me, He leaft that woman and all he wants is marry me, I'm really confussed cause I want to marry that strange man with a strange way of life, religion language etc..

so tell me if Am I the right person who can give u a honest opinion, I need your opinion now cause i am %99 sure that I want to wait that man I want to be with him and maybe Im taking the wrong decision but that is what I want, Good and bad luck is in everywhere around the world we don't need to marry a muslim man to have bad or good luck in marriage, so I want to take the risk, God helps us... firefly.lha@hotmail.com

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