marrying muslim-egyptian man

Submitted by sss (Oman), May 7, 2010 at 05:13

hi, i met my egyptian man online on chat

and not u must be thinknig that since i met him online so he's not worth trusting. well, i wont say ur wrong coz this is striking my mind too. many things come in my mind. firstly, he lied to me about his age. i am 82 born and he is 83 born. but he said he is also 82 born. well, age might not matter but , he lied. next, when i asked him if he smokes, he said no. but he does and i came to know quite late. again, what matters is that he lied. and when i asked about y he lied, he said he didnt want me to leave him. i donno what to think, whether he love me so much thats y he lied or some other reason. anyway, many other things come in my mind.......... he says i dont have to follow his religion if i dont want to, but i feel he wants me to follw his religion wheich he might force me after marriage. and he likes to tell me what to do and doesnt like to take my decisions or even advice.......... at times that it. well, many such things in my mind, but i would like to know about other people with similar experiences. i ust want my like to be secured. and if i dont find it secured in future, then i may as well not marry him. right now the only thing in my mind is that i am already 27 and donno when i will marry iif i leave him. its about time i also get married.........

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