I feel for you

Submitted by why? (France), May 8, 2010 at 15:11

Hi

I hope you're ok, I know how you feel. I went through almost the same situation with my ex moroccan guy!

Its awful how one day they're all sweet and in love with you with their sweet eyes and then the next minute being distant, and driving us insane. Then you catch them on dating sites, as if all women to them are objects. Then you find a text to some girl i'll meet you there! Its just a painful situation but yet they still want us to be there just in case or whatever. For me it has been over a year now thats its been over but now and again the past comes back to me its like this guy is still around even though hes in his country now. He tried to talk to me on msn last month and then went off line before i could reply but was on invisible (still on line) i turned off my computer and cried cos he still gets to me for some reason. How did you deal with the seperation?Have you heard from him since?I don't know why they mess around like that its crazy! Its like they're robots just going from one girl to another with no shame. As you said male prostitutes!!! I know alot of men are like that but these ones have to be the worst!!! I think sometimes its just for the thrill of it, because they know they have the charmers gift that works with every girl they look at! even if shes not their type they'll go ahead anyway. Its sick but i really don't know ,but their moms have big influences on them too and whatever she says goes. So if he marrys a maroccan girl it will be against his will because he told me he doen't like maroccans girls so he will never be happy!!! He might regret it one day for not just settling down with me because all these other girls on the website etc.. is just not realistic its artificial and stupid...AND NOT REAL LIFE!!!

Hope you're feeling better! If you want to talk don't hesitate to write to me!

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