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Submitted by Sara Ann (United States), May 26, 2010 at 09:25

Im a female. Im saying, you took money out of YOUR pension I am assuming 401 K plan which is usually the case. I too have borrowed money on loans from my pension/401k plan but it was MY CHOICE and not a scam. You decided to pull that money and you want to blame him for a stupid mistake you made or the fact you spent it on traveling to see him which was something you wanted at the time. How did he scam you? You made bad decisions. You regret it now only because he turned out to be bad. Now you want him to repay you. He is overseas and didn't force you to do anything. Women need to be SMARTER! This is all I am saying. I do hope you recover and you have learned a valuable lesson. Too bad it was at your expense and you realized a little too late. You need to realize too, not all these men in relationships are scammers. Uless they are proven guilty of it, people need to refrain from posting ALL are the same. Really they are not!! We are not all cut from the same mold.

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