Response...

Submitted by Justme (United States), May 28, 2010 at 05:48

Sara Ann...I don't usually comment on harsh replies like yours but you really have no idea what your talking about unless you've experienced their scam first hand. These men are not raised to believe women are equal counterparts or even remotely close. Their culture is totally unlike anyone born in the USA or Western Countries. Yes they will lie to you and say they feel a certain way... It's lies and even if you wish to acknowledge that we are all different, the thing is, these men all have one thing in common, Islam.

Islam is not just a religion, it is a way of life. Many of these men can not even fathom on how to cherish or respect a woman the way western women are used to. The Western woman is considered the infidel to the majority so they do not feel remorse when they lie, steal or cheat. If you are one of the women that convert...well then you are just a second class Muslim woman in their eyes usually...and sincerely...just keeping them company and giving them sex until all their paperwork comes through and they are free to do as they like in the USA.

Most go back, marry a pure virgin and either bring her back or...they go back and forth to their women in the USA and the one back home, that is if they still feel the women in the USA have something to offer worth keeping them, usually money or material possessions. They feel that it is their right to marry up to four women and if a man asks you jokingly "what would you do if he wanted to marry another?" Don't take it lightly. It shows his true intentions. They normally don't feel guilty sleeping around and they lie like the sun because in in Islam it is not a sin to lie if it is protecting themselves or another. So with this in mind, let's say you are in relationship with one of these men and they profess to love you, you are their Queen, their heart...yes and you really think you are. You see they say the same thing to every woman. You end up marrying them and treating them like you would a man here in Western society...sharing everything...cause we do that here.

This man had access to her social security number and even though you think she may have just handed over everything to him, most likely he stole. I knew a man ...when he first camehere he'd open many bank accounts before he had a social security card, he then over drew on the accounts and would say he was't accountable to pay them back because they couldn't prove it was him. Basically it was their fault for opening the bank account... therefore I suppose you'd say they deserved what they got. Hon...what he did was illegal. He also forged paystubs and other documents to get what he wanted...as well as stole credit card info. As we know it's easy to purchase things over the internet.

Pure and simple, he had at least three women that I am aware of that he was telling he loved, having sex with them at the same time, taking money, using their cars, using anything he could get and you can be sure that each and every one thought they were the only one. Now if you are involved with one of these men, I'd definitely think twice before getting too serious because in a few years down the line, sure yea, maybe you wouldn't have sacrificed any money but honey, I wouldn't sacrifice my heart for any one of these men if they were the only men left on this earth. They can seem the most sincere people in the world but it's really disheartening when one finds out that the last four or five years of their lives were a lie and ...on top of it, they descredit your name and say terrible things about you to get others sympathy so they can keep scamming. The women on here know because what these men do is very common and it happens all the time. They get personal info. from women, their birth dates, socials, etc...and use there credit cards, bank accounts, etc...without the knowledge of the woman in a lot of cases. They forge documents and have no problems lying straight faced.

I too used to always believed all people were different but ...there's a whole knew generation out there desperate to get out of their country any way they can. Even the US Embassy warns women about these men. Don't take it lightly. The heart is treacherous...this is where people must think with their heads.

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