A statistic

Submitted by Response (United States), Jul 11, 2010 at 20:09

Some of the comments on here about how wonderful these Arab men look, make me laugh. The man I knew, the truth is, I thought his heart was good but he wasn't anything at all special. He's balding, skinny. He's barely 5"8 if that. He'd work out and say it'd be for me, but he was just working on another woman. He's still a very small, bony man. His teeth are the worst, as yellow as can be. You know on all the horror movies, the bad guy has yellow teeth so I should have realized what I was in for. He has this huge nose and in general, his features aren't anything special. If he'd had a good personality, I could have overlook some of the physical aspects but....He's awful inside and out. I think some of these women have some kind of dream built up in their minds or maybe they've watched a li'l too much Alladin and really think somehow that's what they think they may be getting. Most of these men can lie so straightfaced. Wow, it's a skill I'm telling you. They usually want money, sex or anything they can get from a woman and she will think for a while, it's all about her, that she's somehow changed the world for him.

The truth is, most of the time these men are trying to live a whole nother life style, sow their wild oats and get all their miserableness out on you and the other women you have no idea about it hiding in the wood work. Then when they are truly ready to settle down,when they think they've made their quick bucks, had enough crazy sex and fun, usually once they are secure with their Green card or a few years after, they will go back home, get serious and marry a young virginal woman that suits them. They even might stay married to you. Heck, they can have up to four wives. Just know most of the time, you will not be the main and sole lover ...so get used to sharing. The main sign for them is, you are from the western world. It doesn't matter how old or young you are. You can be younger but, you are a Western woman. You will never be viewed as good as a woman from their home country, no matter what he says. You are usually just a Green card, crazy and wild sex, or money. Even if a few of these relationships might be sincere, the majority are not. Your best bet, like everyone says, is to find someone more like you with interests like you. Religion is a huge deal in Islam. It's a lifestyle and even if a man is wild when he is young, he changes immensely before he gets old. He wants his children raised in Islam, and he will make sure they are raised right. He will pitch a good story at first but in the end you will probably most likely feel like you've lost everything. We all remember that first moment we thought it it was worth it, or how will we ever know if we never take the risk? Right? Yet most will admit they wouldn't give a second look at a Middle Eastern man after living through it. Why? Cause it's really not worth the risk. It's not worth risking giving money to these men that should have gone to your children or at least someone that truly cared for you in the first place, it's not worth hearing lies about you later on on how terrible of a person you were with them, it's not worth it in the end because you'd sacrificed your heart and he was only trying to get something new and different in the first place. Afterall, he didn't risk anything did he? What kind of life did he have before? Usually poor with little chance for prosperity anyway. I know you probably see spitefulness written all over here. I am saying there are warnings from the US Consulant for a reason. What these men do is rampant and well known. You may think you're different but most likely your just another statistic.

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