Visiting does not give you insight into a culture

Submitted by Istanbul_chick (Turkey), Jul 17, 2010 at 05:47

"-he wouldn't dream of infidelity"

LOL! ROFLMAO!

Oh dear God! You really are one deluded and desperate woman.

Spending what? a week? a month? with him and his family has given you NO clue to how Turkish culture really is.

Here the mentality is "boys will be boys." If I had a nickel for every time a married Turk sexually propositioned me I'd be a rich woman. Usually the exchange is this:

"Let's f***", "let's have fun," "meet me ok?"

"No, thanks. I'm married.

"No problem I'm married too." Or how about this one: "Why you so uptight? I'm married to an American whore like you."

You have to live here for many years to understand the mentality, which is really muslim male mentality towards women. Men get whatever they want. No woman, especially a foreign non-muslim whore has NO right to say no to the muslim Turkish male. If his wife is not satisfying him he as every right to get it somewhere else. And, no, the Turkish wife does not have any right to seek satisfaction else where if her husband is not satisfying her.

My husband (who's not Turkish or muslim as I am not old or desperate), and I are often struck by the total lack of shame or guilt on the part of Turkish men who are caught cheating. Actually, caught is not the correct word. Bragging is the correct word. They brag about their mistresses. Of course, Turkish women, just look the other way and think "boys will be boys."

A Turkish man who does not have at least one mistress is considered "weak." And of course islam infects all cultures with massive doses of machismo.

Contrast that with America. Clinton was impeached and vilified for having an extra-marital affair. There is still a sense of shame with infidelity in the western world. In islamic cultures the shame comes in NOT being monogamous.

Of course, he's not dreaming about cheating. He's actually doing it or will do it. Despite what he tells you. You must understand Turkish culture. There is no shame in lying. None at all. The shame in Turkish culture is telling someone what they DO NOT want to hear so for them lying is the more honorable route.

Ebubekir. So you scored yourself a Kurdish Turk. *CHORTLE* SNORT*Good luck with that! But do us a favour and ship your arse and his arse back to Turkey. Live out your fantasy but not at the cost of keeping another mohammadan in the west.

Please, God, stop letting these sad and desperate women import more mohammadans into the west.

Luigi is right, if you silly cows were so confident in your marriages to mohammadans you would't be here defending them.

The rest of us have to live with the long-term impact of you silly bints bringing these vile, 7th century minded mohammadans into the west and slowly destroying our cultures and countries from within.

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