RESPONSE

Submitted by London Girl (United Kingdom), Sep 6, 2010 at 09:29

Hello there Luigi, this is a face to face relationship, not online. hes my classmate and i could say that hes one of the most intelligent person i met. we sit together in class and a lot of our male classmates likes me as well. he is not jealous or possessive, he seemed to have a good head on his shoulder. we were room mates now, we have intimate moments but not all through out. im still virgin to say the least. his cousin miss call him almost everyday and he called her back. i am bothered in the beginning, but i told him to carry on. im not really the type of person who wants to stop someone from doing what they like. i dont want him to stop me as well. so i give him the understanding he needed. but when i noticed that its happening almost everyday, i cried and fought with him. i said i wanna move out, and i dont wanna be with you. he was worried to death and he said, u told me its fine thats why i carry on. i did not make him clear this thing which is my fault.its ok with me if they talk but not when im around. this girl doesnt have a mobile , only a landline so she could only talk to him in the morning. now that would be difficult because i am there. but i said to him, if ever you call her back when she miss call, i am out of your life forever. he was so emotional and cried so hard. he said i will stop if you asked me to. i talked to her coz u told me before its ok. now, he is consistent with his word. this morning, the girl miss call him 3 times, with 1 hr interval, he did not call her back. he said, if u wanna me stop i can. i said no. just dont talk when im around. but obviously the morning time is the only time they can talk. but i feel i am more important to me than her. coz its ok if that girl keeps on waiting for him on the phone. my feeling holds more value to him then. what do u think guys. thanks! London Girl

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