response to Ex wife

Submitted by Jess (United States), Nov 16, 2010 at 19:39

No, he is 27. And yes, he is having major difficulty getting a job here in the States. Any job! Even mcdonalds! He says thats why he is so down and not participating much in the marriage or anything, he just doesnt care about anything any more. He says he is a man and not to work is very difficult for him. For me it's hard to know if hes just using me and "hanging out" until the 10 year green card, then maybe try to divorce me and take my money, or if he is just really down. I don't know, but my friends tell me to talk to an immigration lawyer and know my options, maybe even get a "post nup". But u know, it would be easier if he hadn't have lied to me about so many little things, it makes me question the big stuff. But I know I have 2 decide what to do within the next 6 mo or he will have the 10 year green card. I'm not sure what 2 do, cause I don't know for sure.

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