response to Jojo

Submitted by Anna (United States), Nov 18, 2010 at 16:04

Jojo,

When did I ever say in my posts that I was looking for advice? Do YOU always follow the advice of strangers? Do you know what is in my husband's heart? Do you know US at all? I think not. For you to say I am kidding myself and he will never be faithful, etc. etc. is just wrong. How do you know? Are the judge and jury of people? I don't want to sound mean, but that is exactly how you are coming across....judgmental and harsh, too. Someone must have really broken your heart or you are just negative. I am not sure which. Are you basing these comments on your own personal experience? If you say that no one can control any Arabic man or Middle Eastern man, aren't you being perpetuating a stereotype? Lots of men cheat. It has nothing to do with nationality. It is wrong to say that all men from that culture are raised differently. That might be true, but I am perfectly happy with my decision. OF COURSE I am going to make my own decision about my marriage - as should everyone. By the way, he never tried to control me in any way. What does that have to do with cheating anyway? I think I am finished with posting comments for now. Good luck to everyone.

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