reply to Pansy

Submitted by Anna (United States), May 7, 2011 at 08:09

Hi, Pansy! Thank you for your thoughtful comments. However, I certainly don't think I am doomed to a life full of doubts and lies. If I thought that, I would leave now. I am not desperate or stupid. I have been to Morocco twice - I spent four months there with him and his family before our baby was born. I didn't know that in their culture fidelity doesn't exist. I will just have to take your word for it. We have moved on from this and I feel in my heart that the love we have for each other can survive infidelity. It doesn't have to mean the end of a marriage. He is working very hard to earn my trust back. He KNOWS that if he does this again, I will leave him. Anyway, I have to let go of the past because dwelling on someone's mistakes does not do anyone any good and while I am conscientious and mindful of where he is and what he is doing and he makes sure I know at all times exactly that, I live my life and enjoy it and our little girl. All my best to you, too.

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