THE TRUTH AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH

Submitted by TRIED A MILLION TIMES (United States), Sep 20, 2011 at 09:59

Can't remember when I was on here last over the past few years, but here I am again. I was told time and time again to leave my Moroccan husband, but I didn't listen. I am much older, but actually, I really believe he loves/ed me. HOWEVER, it is far different than what we American women expect. I am presently divorced from him (never will marry anybody again) but we live together. Last night, I told him to go ahead and leave for good.

The following have been problems the entire time he has been here in USA:angry all the time; suspicious of everyone (dentist, doctor, insurance agent, friends, etc etc etc)--everybody is out to get them and screw them over; you can't reason with them because then you are not defending them; it is ALL about them; he has no interest in my life (unless it involves another man); he gets mad and rages; has broken things; went to divorce lawyers several times over the 4 years we have been together; am presently divorced, but wanted him back when he was going to move to be with another woman; paid for his car like an idiot, but even this didn't make him grateful; they don't change; you are the problem; calls you names like hooker; doesn't want you to talk to your strong women friends; plays the VICTIM to the hilt; had to give him money to get divorce, will be sweet and nice until they get what they want; nothing is ever enough, they will find something else to be mad about.

Ladies, I paid off his car to get him to come back after he said he loved me, not the other woman (we were divorced by then). BUT found out nothing has changed and he had learned no lessons, he is still the same angry little brat he was before. They will make you feel that you are the problem, especially if you are a strong woman. I have college degree, good job. He thinks it's ok for me to go through all my savings cuz after all, I have retirement...lol

I told him to go ahead and move out last night. Hopefully, he will find another place to live. They resent giving you any money, think they should live for free. They know how to play the system, and his Moroccan friends ALL know more than you do. Yeah, they know more about using the system and getting what they can for free.

Sorry if this is an indictment, but the truth rules. I do know one couple of similar age difference who are doing great. But he has no temper and doesn't hang around with other Moroccans. All the rest.....fighting, selfishness, etc. They will stick together, because after all, American women are all hookers and they are like kids in a candy store. Being exotic it is easy for them to charm somebody else. Just don't let it be you....

THe weird thing is I can't figure out why I ever wen back over and over again. Actually, I think I feel sorry for him cuz he is good at being the poor pitiful one who JUST needs help. I actually had several boyfriends when I took him back. And it was me who asked him back, so I blame myself. But they will make you feel like you are the problem. By the way, I have never had trouble getting along with anyone in the past. I would know if I was a terrible person by this age.

I love this advice from my friend: Don't let selfish men who have taken advantage of your kindness make you sad. I should have listened. Peace and quiet are worth so much more!!!

GOOD LUCK!!!

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