to lost and heart-broken

Submitted by saharablonde (United States), Oct 3, 2011 at 07:46

I know where you are coming from .. my husband bought me lots of things before he left me. I didnt understand that ..if he didnt want me why then did he want to buy stuff and take me to dinner and have sex before he left? He totally confused me. My husband could pretend pretty well for awhile, but. I found out after he left that he did spend the night with someone and all the while bringing me home things that I like.. little gifts after work. I knew something was up. I am glad for you if you can keep yourself from seeing your xbf. It is too much turmoil and confusing. Sorry to say but when most are done playing around they always go home and marry a virgin. I have seen this happen over and over. It amazes me how those men can lie so much. Do you think his parents set him up to marry her after he is done with school? Maybe so. Never know what is really going on. Anyway it is best for you .. believe me .. if u have moved on. I am sure the other girl doesnt even know what was going on. He will be able to control her life and thankfully not yours anymore. Concentrate on yourself now. Take care xo

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