Please read before going out with a muslim

Submitted by Nina (France), Oct 17, 2011 at 06:05

I came to this site because I hardly can believe what just happened to me. I am working in an International place surrounded with people representing the law. I cannot say more as it is well-known. I have been going out with someone from Kuwait, I must say, I am now searching for counseling, so far, I don't understand his behavior.

Firstly, most of those men coming from Muslim countries are leaving their spouses at home so they can go out here freely. I always trusted Muslim as I know the religion, but, it is really difficult to find one who is really "submitted to God" as Islam says. This guy studied in USA, where he was involved with a girl, he made her to abort their child, and seems that plenty of GCC men have left children behind while studying in USA. This guy went home for holidays, we kissed and say goodbye at the airport and when he came back he is a different person. He did not want to talk to me when I spoked about his hypocrisy.he had an arm operation here and I have been looking after him.

The thing is, he does the Ramadan but when it finishes he drinks, lies, has sex, that is another thing I found out, the hypocrisy they are living with, is part of their culture. I see them kissing between men, saying habibi how are you? And behind speaking bad from each other. This guy told me stories, he is a policeman back home about chasing dogs on the desert till they got tired, and later throwing his pit-bulls at them, heating a girlfriend because she did not want to have sex with him while studying in USA, but what really made me think was what he said about having sex with a girl back home on the beach in Kuwait, covered with the hijab, and they did it anal from the back because she had to remain virgin, is that normal? I think that is really sick.

From now on, I don't want to date any men from Middle-East, nor Muslim that is not 100% right. I read plenty of things about these men and I came to a conclusion, is their culture to cheat on women, 90% do. So, sorry for those being in love with those, specially the girl going to Kuwait with the Egyptian, be careful. I think they should only get married between them, as their women assumed their culture since they are kids. Another thing also, this guy lies all the time, it is their modus operandi so they have to obey strict laws back home but they don't want to. I refused to sleep with him during Ramadan, for him, and he forced me to do so, later he took a shower to purify and started to pray to God as what he did was haram. Seriously, getting involved with those men is just complicating your life, it is another world, mentality and culture towards women. I don't understand that as the Koran says to respect women but they just don't and they most are cheaters, that is why I never trusted him, this relationship could never have worked as I am very honest person, and I just found out a I have been dating a scum.

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