To lost and broken hearted

Submitted by Susan (France), Nov 2, 2011 at 14:07

Thank you for your response. I know how difficult it must be for you, as I went through it too. You are lucky to be able to move on in such a short time. It took me a few years and still not completley healed.

He still gets in contact with me on msn and I reply sometimes when I'm lonely.

Hes actually back to morocco now as he couldn't change his working status either. He told me he was seeing an amercain girl a few months ago. I said are you happy with her he said I wouldnt be talking to you if I i was, and I have no feelings for her, Its just for sex and that she was leaving that country at the end of the year, last summer. Anyway she ended up prolonging her working contract for another year there. He was happy to tell me, and see my reaction. I can bet you, he charmed and manipulated her into staying and I think hes living with her but denies it. (In a country like that i thought its hard to live with a girl before marraige? I guess he found a way around that)

He says he misses me and thinks of me and invited me to go see him, after such a long time its a bit late for that I'm sure he realised how bad he messed up back then. He now says that its over with her that he has no time as he has found a new job and studdying too. I get the feeling he still sees her. I said don't want to break your plan in to getting the green card with her, he replied theres no plan I will retire here. lol!

I have met some guys after this turmoil but it didnt go anywhere long term and I find myself alone with no family here, so go back to thinking of us,its tough sometimes, I don't know if he really cares for this girl if they are happy,? I saw that shes friends with all his friends and his family, when we were together he hardly ever introduced me to his friends and he hide me from his family. Why with her is it different?Hes not a religious muslim he smokes and drinks and does what he likes he doesnt like marrocan girls because they are so materalistic and his family is fine with that. He can marry who he wants they want his happiness and never put pressure on him what so ever.Anyway even though he says he doesnt see her anymore i have a feeling he does, I saw a pic of her and she looked so happy. Why did he tell me to come? am I his plan B OR A?:) I wish I could stop thinking about all this, its doing my head in.

About putting my email its an old one not a private one and many people on this site put there email to get extra help and information. Also I actually put the wrong ending its hotmail and not gmail.

Thanks for reading.

Talk soon, warmest wishes.

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