lost and heart-broken

Submitted by Update a big news (France), Nov 5, 2011 at 18:14

My moroccan ex called me today, he told me a big news about him, and i think i have to share it with u guys here.

If you remember my story, my ex met a moroccan girl in his 12-day holiday in morocco and then broke up with me after he came back. now two months passed. He told me so happily today that he broke up with the moroccan girl, AND he has a new gf!! He told me the whole story. He met this girl in a party of his friend last saturday, then they had sex at the same night (in a friend's room, when he is having a gf). Then he broke up with his moroccan gf, he told her that it doesnt work between them because she is too young for him(only 2 years different) and she is too reserved(she doesnt go out, stay home a lot, but as what i know, he asked her not to go out).so all is her fault, it sounds to me. and he deleted her from fb and blocked her and added his new gf and me......

what im sure is, he doesnt really like this girl, all he wants is to stay in france. because:(these are just my ex's opinion, not mine, i dont agree with him)

1,in the last two years, he told me so many times that he hates french. because french are stupid, selfish and racist, they still live with their parents even they already grown up, they dont know how to live like an adult.they just know how to party and ask for money from parents..blablabla, lots of defects...when i went out with him in the street or in the metro, he complained a lot about french and said bad things about them so loudly in english, he thinks nobody CAN speak english here in france, because french r stupid. BUT this girl is a french and she still lives with her parents.

2, he told me its the first time he met her. BUT in fact, two years ago, me and him already met her in a birthday party of a friend. she was just sitting in the right front of him. I recognized her once i saw her photo on fb, but him , he didnt recognize her!! i was the one who remined him about the party two years ago...omg...

3, in the last two years, he kept telling me that he doesnt like blonde girl, they r not his style, he said blonde girls r stupid, and they r sluts, they r just good to have sex(he use the word begins by f.....). he said blonde girls r so ugly, at night they look like a ghost, because they look like they have no blood in the body, too white like a dead body.and the shape of the face is....(i really dont remember how he describe it, but he used words very very mean) he told me he will never find a blond girl as a gf. BUT, this girl is blonde.

4, he knows he has big problem of staying in france, because of the policy i mentioned before, he cant get the working visa. so, unless he married someone who is a french, otherwise he must go at the end of January. SO.......

I was very surprised to hear this news. it just happens too fast, i thought he would be with the moroccan girl at least a couple of months more. he also told me in the phone that, the moroccan girl must be very sad now, but he doesnt know how is she. he doenst care. he is very happy now. BUT, maybe in some months or some years, he will go back with her, IF it doesnt work with this french or other girls later.

After hearing all of these, i feel so relieved. THANK GOD. I didnt see his true face myself before, and now he shows all to me(he really considers me as his best friend in france,lol). I feel so lucky. I was stupid to believe him. I was stupid to feel sad about his leaving. I feel really happy now. im saved!!!

But, at the same time, i feel so sorry for the moroccan girl. she waited him for almost three years. and now she got this ending. and i dont know how long she will wait for this guy. im sure he will make her wait........poor girl.....she is wasting her time and youth...

So, ladies, open up ur eyes, this is moroccan man!!!! I thought my moroccan ex is a bit different. i thought he is serious and treat girls well. i thought it was my fault to make him leave. but here is the fact, they r all the same. liars, cheaters, abuser, selfish, do whatever they can to go out of their country!!!

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