to lost and heart broken

Submitted by susan (France), Nov 7, 2011 at 11:16

Hi again,

So sorry to hear your bad news about your ex. It just goes to show how desperate they are to get out of their country and use people no matter what even if shes blond, fat and ugly they don't care. He doesn't have respect for any girl even his morrocan ex girlfriend.

I can understand they want to leave for a better life especially ariticial things like cars and leather seats, and nice lifestyle, but if they were for one bit sincere and honest to us maybe their problem would have been solved the honest way and we would have married for real love, that isint the case. They are selfish and want it all too quickly and lots of girls, women. Its sick their ways.

I know my ex is using an american girl now in marroco, shes fat and really not his type either, can't imagine how he could sleep with her yuk!!!

Hopefully she will not be naive, to his manipulating ways and leave him when her working contract is finished in june. Thats a long way ahead yet so who who knows what will happen. I know everyone living there wants to get out, the salary over there is so low and the life is not so good, and very poor people. Its sad really but not an excuse to treat people the way they do t get what they want. They could get what they want by bieng nice and not out to sabatage your whole life.

I just wish this had never happened with my ex.. he tries to make me feel guilty too because i didn't marry him. I just wasn't 100% sure and had doubts about a couple of things. Sometimes I think maybe i was paranoid and lost someone i really loved. Its especially when i'm lonely.I think if someone else will marry him or whatever will they be happy or will he be out womanizing like before? with lots of problems?

Anyway, I'm glad you feel you have a lucky escape and I'm sure you did too. Next time he calls try not to answer, especially if its about his life and other girls. Just say you're not interested n knowing his crap.fullstop.

Feel free to write to me anytime we are going through the same thing and it helps to talk to someone who knows about these types of men.

Don't worry, if you already have a new boyfriend you're lucky I'm still single.

kind regards,

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