To Teena

Submitted by saharablonde (United States), Nov 14, 2011 at 19:22

Teena thank you for the letter and concern. It sounds like the same situation as me. He didnt want me smoking or anything, but he could. Don't waste any more of your life with him because it does not get any better no matter what you do. It is always the woman's fault for everything. I thought I could show him unconditional love and did everything for him. Nothing works with these men. They are going to do what they want. Even if you love him and you probably do, it hurts and I know, please listen. It will be a waste of time. He has had friends that got married to american, divorced them and went back to morocco and got married to a cousin . I have a large and wonderful family that loved him too and forgave him for everything. I forgave him so many times only to have him turn right around and do the same old abusive stuff to me and cheat on me. It is that religion I am sure. They are allowed to lie, cheat and etc. No conscience whatsoever.

We were together ten years. It always went back to square one! Never got any better!! I wish i could go back and take back my ten years wasted. I cant.

So think about this and make your decision based on what the future looks like or will be like if you stay with him.. take care, bless you!

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