To Cindy!

Submitted by RLT (United States), May 5, 2013 at 20:52

Dearest Cindy! I feel your pain - and my heart goes out to you! I KNOW and understand EXACTLY what you are going through and or what you are faced with! Please Cindy - PLEASE- DO NOT under ANY circumstance believe this man! I promise you he is - LYING! Sure he claims he loves you - I heard those exact same words - over and over again - and I (like you) believed him. Muslim men will look you straight in the eye and profess how you are "the one" - FOREVER! It is not a sin to lie to us infidels in Islam Cindy. -AND- of COURSE his family is in on it! It's just business for them! His entire family (with all their smiles and waves) are also focused on the $$$$ signs! Ma Ma bear and all his siblings are right there waiting to cash in! DO NOT send him anymore money! EVER!!!!! Get rid of him - now! Let the Muslimahs have him!!!! - but beware he will tell you he dosen't want to marry an Muslim/ Egyptian women. Ha! Cindy - After you close this chapter in your life, It will take some time to get through the initial hurt - but it's worth it - you will be so proud of yourself. When I refused to give my Egyptian man and his Ma Ma anymore of my money and possessions - he played the part of passive/aggressive - and - was oh~~~ so sweet - then when he realized I was SERIOUS and was NOT going to give him another dime - he became outraged and then stole from me, hit me, spit on me, called me vulgar names, etc. That's when I had - had enough! I felt if he was going to kill me - at the very least I wasn't going to go down without a fight! I got up - slammed his head agains't the wall and punched him hard enough to knock the wind out of him!

All the while - his Mother is yelling in the background in (Arabic) "My Baby! My Baby!" I then walked over to her and put my finger in her face and said - "And - YOU - if you ever try ANYTHING on me again - YOUR NEXT! " Thereafter, they just stood there in disbelief! Yeah that's right buddy - - you can kiss my @ss now and FOREVER! In addition - it totally pissed him off even more that I was no longer going to succumb to his line of bull! He thought he had me - (and he did for awhile) - but he no longer does - nor- will he ever play me the fool again! -and- does it ever feel so~~~ GOOD!

Also this - where are you - what are you doing - what are you wearing - ( I heard that too) - it's all BS! It's all about -CONTROL - and they think in your western mind - you'll find this behavior of his ever so ~ endearing! It's NOT! This again is just "business" for him as it is for every muslim man! He wants to control you - NOT because he loves you Cindy - but because he dosen't want anyone else to interfere with the $$ you are sending him and all the assets he wants to obtain for his own personal gain. One thing is for certain - there is only a 1% chance he would ever get a visa to Canada! He has to have money in the bank - a job - etc, and when the embassy notices you are half his age - they are going to reject him faster then you can blink an eye. -AND- rightfully so - they are there to protect you!!!! They know he is up to NO good! -and- so do I !!!! Even IF he got a visa - once he obtained his permanet residency - he would be gone and working on bringing his 'young' Egy wife and family over. Cindy - I could tell you story's about my stay in Egypt that would make your toe's curl - if you were sitting here in my living room - you would look at me and think - how - could a pretty women - who is intelligent - warm and kind - let this happen. - I am still processing it all Cindy - but one thing is for certain - I am closer to God and I thank him everyday for saving me. :) He has never left my side - and continue's to walk me through the painful memories.

- I am here for you Cindy - we- at the Daniel Pipes are here for you! In closing - I'd like to pass on these famous words to you:

"Please promise me you'll always remember: You're braver than you believe, and stronger then you seem, and smarter than you think". -

For those to whom I may have offended - I make no apologies - I speak from my own personal experience!

Please stay in touch Cindy - I want to know how you are doing! *Many - Many - Hugs*

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