My Algerian Husband

Submitted by My Life is a Disaster (United States), Jun 14, 2016 at 01:40

I commented on here a few days ago and i said i would tell my story when i got myself together better. I have been reading a lot about Algerian men.

My Algerian man was the perfect dream man. He was very sweet, understanding, tall, good looking. When I met him I knew i loved him and he told me he loved me. We met 3 times before we decided to get married. We never had sex before marriage. we wanted God to bless our marriage and do it the right way. he lost his job. while we were waiting on his interview for the K! visa. He was approved.

I paid for all expenses to get him here. It cost me almost $3000. we got married. he was a wonderful husband at first. i was paying for him to get a degree when the 6 month wait was done. It cost $1000 to get the work visa. He had his degree. he was going to start work. I got pregnant.

He changed and he talked to me like i was trash and called me names. Hit me in the head and my eye once. I stayed upset everyday. He was talking to other women on social medias. he was having cam sex with them. he never touched me anymore and i was his wife who loved him and had helped him a lot.He didn't contribute money to our finances like he said he would when he started working. The house was behind 3 payments and my car was repoed. the house went into foreclosure and when this happen i had a miscarriage and lost my baby. He left me and i got divorce papers. I found out he was planning to marry a 21 year old Algerian girl. I'm 35 and he is 30.

i moved in with my parents and they have been my rock! My mind snapped it felt because my Dad talked me out of doing something to my soon to be ex husband because i would have finished ruining my life and been in jail. i came to my senses. I was the biggest fool and i got used bad., I'm pulling myself together to make a better life for myself. i'm grateful to have my family. This is a warning to all women who think about getting involved with these men. They will use and abuse you. They don't care if you die because i felt i was going to die.

My life is a mess and i get on my hands and knees and pray to God to please help me get my life together. Why did this happen to me? I'm foolish. A fool who was in love with a man who didn't give 2 cents about me.

Western women stay away from Arab Muslim men. They will destroy you and not think twice about what they have done!

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