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Mysterious manReader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by Naylaa Hamid (United States), Nov 22, 2016 at 22:48 Firstly thank you to this website. I am having a hard time with my situation. Same story met a Muslim fell in love. I am married and so is he. Once I expressed my interest in becoming a Muslim he has since sent me love poems and romantic words. Also wanted to marry me . Speaking to his father, Imam and sister. I have met the sister and father via text. I do know that I need to divorce in order to be with him. I have visited him once already and we solidified our relationship. However, since getting to know him his beautiful words and poems have dropped off. Before getting to know him he mentioned that I had a choice if I wanted to be with him because he was in trouble with the Iranian government for teaching Sunni. I believed him. Later he starts disappearing for hours at a time without hopping online. One story was that he was in jail but not due to religion but due to a real estate transaction. He claims he has no jobs and it is hard for him to get one in Dubai. never has asked for money and refuses to accept. I started noticing that he woudl send me pics of him and gay guys he would meet pretending that it was interesting and wanted to show me he could be friends with them. Then disappearances again for hours at a time and then sounding depressed on his audio messages to me. He would say that he wouldn't eat for hours and eluded to there would be no job. Still doesn't ask but i offer. We discuss him moving to the US and even filled out a document to see if he can come via a visitor visa. We have become very close and have committed but he has changed. He doesn't hide anything like he use to but he does tell me to stop asking questions. I can never get real answers from him but riddles that I am suppose to figure out. These are his answers to questions that are important. He can joke but once I do it's serious business. He will not tell me he loves me but says I should know it in his actions. He wants me to meet his father next month but we have not been getting along and he has changed. A few weeks ago he was going through some kind of up and down and hardly heard from him. I don't know how incarcaration works there but he seemed to be limited on food, time and times to be on the net. He won't tell me anything. Is this man lying to me and perhaps still living with wife? he says no and that she is in Iran. Is he in trouble with the government? Is it time for me to let this guy go. I would love to investigate him butI don't know where to start. I sent him money for the first time and other products he asked for and his sister. He was offended by the money that I sent and saying I have an ego and want him to thank me. Maybe true personalities have finally come about. I dont' understand persians and how they love if this is love at all. i have fallen in love and it is hard for me to let go but I feel that I need to. In the past he shared more but as of recent he has stopped. Perhaps this tactic of his has fallen short and cannot get the green card fast enough? Advice anyone to guide me in the right directon. I have been intimate with him already and he said the next step is for us to be married because that was the only reason why he would get that close. I still can'tf figure out why he is so mysterious. Is he under cover police? scam artist? living with other females. He showed me everything when there in Dubai and I have matched up everything with my own investigations. It all checks out. He has even video taped his family and showed me where he lives and where he hangs out. I mean this could be a typical i fell in love with someone poor and yes our feelings are there but his situation is hard. I just don't understand the mystery, I feel he is hiding something from me. Submitting....
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