Today I bought myself a pair of 1/2 carat diamond earings

Submitted by freeatlast (United States), Jun 16, 2017 at 16:10

They are beautiful and sparkly. They are to remind me every time I look in the mirror that I must always make myself my priority. I am 2 years free of the parasite that hijacked my bank account, derailed my life and drained my spirit. I wont go into details but my story is similar to everyones elses posting on here. I even used to come here when I was in the NOT MY MOHAMMED phase. At the time I felt smug and sanctimonious thinking how lucky i was that I had found my soulmate. He never asked for a dime Ii whispered to myself...but of course i was paying for everything because he was a "just a poor egyption who could never seem to find a job".

It is crazy and pathetic how easily we are fooled by pretty words and fake love. I wasted 4 years of my life on a vile love rat. I am now saving for a trip to Paris. To all you wonderful ladies out there who are going through hell or coming here reading these stories because in your heart you know something is terribly wrong....but you cant let go. if you want out simply stop giving them anything and this means hope for a visa. You will be amazed at how quickly their eternal love for vanishes and the endless calls, texts and lengthy skype calls simply end.

To all the ladies that made it out of the black abyss and are recovering please treat yourself well. Let us celebrate by buying ourselves beautiful clothes, a longed for piece of jewelry or a spa day. That is if your former love rat has not drained the well dry. It has taken me 2 years to come back financially and I wake up and give thanks to GOD that I am free of the parasite that almost destroyed me.God Bless You All.

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