Thank you Bazoonga

Submitted by Deirdre (Canada), Aug 28, 2018 at 14:41

I was unaware about all of that information surrounding that name. I had been reading the posts on here and noticed the name was being used often, makes you wonder if it's the same person.This was the first time I had allowed myself to get involved with a mena man. I guess like everyone here I craved attention at the time and he gave me lots of that in the beginning at least. Anyways after about 4 months of communication certain things didn't add up. I decided to inquire about his country and culture, found out a lot of things and decided to do more research which led me to the 'Bezness' website. Shortly after that I found this website while searching for something else. After reading all the posts here it confirmed my suspicions.

I didn't confront him or anything I just blocked him. He was never on my facebook or any of my social media except the website we met on and whatsapp so I wasn't concerned. It was hard at first not speaking to him since we spoke everyday. A week later he found me on a different website and friend requested me there. I couldn't believe it, so I confronted him and of course he went on about how he missed me and that he's been searching for me all over the internet and why did I block him etc..so I called him out about bezness, (something I should have done in the first place) of course he denied everything and tried to play victim. He couldn't convince me with anything he had to say so I finished with him. Even though it was hard in the beginning I know it was the right thing to do. He never had the chance to ask me for money or marriage since I stopped him in his tracks.

Now I am on a mission to help others in the same situation and hope that they find this forum like I did.

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