LORNA, PLEASE HEAR US!!!!DO NOT RUIN YOUR LIFE!!!!!

Submitted by LANA (USA) (United States), Oct 9, 2018 at 15:09

Dear Lorna

All of us want you to be happy with all our hearts and wish you the best.We are very concerned for you!

Please do not do it!!!!!
IF YOU MAKE YOUR CHOICE OUT OF FEAR,REGRET PITY OR ANGER,You will regret it dearly later!

Most of us in this forum got hurt beyond belief and are past all of it.We survived,and now-trying to help others to prevent them from hurting.

You will be very happy!Later on,if you don't force it.
True love should not immerse you in fear guilt or negativity-it should make you calm and feel protected,taken care for,not lost,miserable or hurt.If it is-it is not love,but mental abuse and manipulation.
He is disgusting pig,worthless scoundrel with inflated ego!!!
He is even dare to show his true self to you,yet you try to find an explanation for his absolutely unacceptable behavior!!!!

YOU WILL BE HAPPY!!!.....ONLY NOT WITH THIS MAN!!!HE IS NOTHING,HE WILL DESTROY YOU IN EVERY WHICH WAY HE COULD GET HIS HANDS ON,and then will discard you.
You will be wasting time and money with him,but no matter what,he WILL DISCARD YOU,leaving you with nothing at all,even emotionally.

YOU ARE A STRONG WISE WOMAN WHO DESERVES THE BEST MAN ,NOT THIS CRAPPY ONE!!!
Look at him carefully and ask yourself:What do you find attractive in him besides sweet talk and looks?NOTHING!!!!!
He treats you like dirt while you are not yet his wife,so why do you expect him to change after the marriage?

WHY ARE YOU NOT LOVING YOURSELF TO THE POINT THAT YOU ARE WILLINGLY LETTING HIM TO DESTROY YOU????

LORNA,DEAR!!!PLEASE HEAR US AS WE SPEAK FROM EXPERIENCE!
STOP THIS MADNESS,YOU ARE ON THE ROAD TO HELL WITH HIM !!SO CUT OFF THIS POISONOUS GANGRENE OUT,LIKE THE SURGEON CUTS INFECTED AND UNTREATABLE LIMB,BEFORE IT SPREADS ITS TOXINS!!!!

YOU CAN DO BETTER!!!!

BIG HUGS TO YOU!!!
STAY STRONG AND DO THE RIGHT THING FOR YOURSELF AND YOUR FUTURE LIFE!!!
You are emotional now sour is better to be by yourself and calm down before you decide to have relationship,so this way you can make a wise choice,which will be good for your life!

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