To Lina & Lorna

Submitted by Hope (United Kingdom), Nov 6, 2018 at 16:08

Lina you are right. I was married to a Kurd and this was exactly what happened to me. I was supposedly accepted by his family and was treated like a queen until I was discarded like an old dish cloth. The ultimate goal was the "indefinite leave to remain" and after that he was gone. I am over it now - it is 4 years plus but as I have said before the deceit and betrayal of all those people being involved does not really go away. I still do not know how so many people could behave like this - we know why they do it because it is for one of their own and to better their life but truly they are parasites! And their religion justifies it - if you can call it a religion. I checked everything and thought I had covered everything but alas they got me and that was a hard pill to swallow. Professionals.

I do hope Lorna will be OK and then pigs might fly - she needs to be very careful...........good luck Lorna and remember this site if and when you are in need. It might not be now but it may be in a few years. Secure your finances as I did, you may lose your heart but do not lose your head! Nothing more to say really apart from watch and wait. Sad but true!

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