I hope you are happy

Submitted by Lorna (Iraq), Nov 8, 2018 at 20:09

Hello thank you Jessica for your kind words ! I don't know yet if I have done the right thing ! I married him two days ago and I'm in love with him and so far he has been so kind and I feel he loves me too ! I've met all his family and friends but he told them I married him to help him ..that is what I fear could be the start of problems as why can he not say he loves me and that our marriage is real ! He has no parents they are both dead he is the head of his family having one older sister and two teenage brothers to look after with his sister ! So why can't he tell them that we are in love?

I don't know ..I'm in an apartment alone most of the time whilst he works then he comes and we go for dinner and at 12 evening he leaves! He has made no attempt to make love with me and insisted at the start that this would only happen in the UK! Alarm bells are ringing and I know something is not right ! I feel stupid once again but before you all say I told you so please see I had to do this or have lived with regret as I'm so in love ! Maybe he is a good guy I don't know !

I go home next week to start the process of bringing him to the UK! I don't know how I feel anymore my heart sinks I feel sad and very alone but it was my choice to do this and I thank you all for all your help and kindness ! Thank you ..pray for me !

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