Thank you sheila

Submitted by Freebird (United Kingdom), Dec 27, 2018 at 08:45

Thanx so much Sheila for your post giving credit to me, I've been through so much over the last 6 and a half years that it has changed me not in particular for the better as I have become more insecure doubtful of everyone have trust issues and more short tempered , I blame the muslim husband that stole my heart for this, but I have life left in me to be optimistic and remember that people deserve to be happy and deserve to be loved and there ARE decent men out there. I'm hoping to find a good companion that I can trust and treat me well and I'm sure in the right time that can and will happen. I'm not giving up because someone mistreated me. He's the loser here, because I have a lot of love to give to the right man and I know I deserve that so much.

And I remember back to when I first was crazy besotted with this man and how he had me under his spell and how I know so much and have truly opened my eyes that I will continue to come on Here and give the best advice and knowledge I can to help others open their eyes too and recover from what I can only describe as a drawn out nightmare these guys truly deserve to be punished for what they are doing to good women.

He lied from start to win me over, would say things like " I couldn't hurt you or do any wrong to you as my allah watches all I do and will punish me for it " thus he gained my trust as I thought he's too afraid to do wrong ! also he told me his friends were trying to get him away from me thus so I would stop talking to them on facebook why ?...because they knew what he was doing and did not want me talking to them.

Also a few weeks after we married I had just returned home from honeymoon with him staying in apartment in little town not too far from his home, I got a message through facebook from one of his close friends to congratulate us, I told him I'm surprised you message me after what you said about me, he had no idea and said that's absolute nonsense ! And he continued to let me know that he called my then husband DURING our honeymoon and at that time be was unaware we had got married but afterwards was shocked that during the phone call my husband never mentioned he just married and was on his honeymoon! ...go figure

...so thank you Sheila I will stay on here for I want to help others any way I can, we all need to help each other I feel I have so much to say I could write a book ! Maybe we should all do it together and contribute our own stories this could be sold in many countries to warn and hopefully put a stop to all this.

I thank god now though I was angry at the time he was refused his visa ! It's a true saying blood is thicker than water but in their case even more so a wife to them is not the way a western man sees his wife. They will ALWAYS put family over wife in all decisions regarding everything I cannot stress that enough...it would be good if ALL read the koran around the planet because then ALL would understand the muslims mentality and why they behave in the way they do...what they believe is beyond belief, the hadiths (sayings of how to live by their prophet) is ludicrous I've never read or heard so much nonsense in my life ! 1 example for you :- if during prayer a donkey camel or woman were to walk in front of you your prayer means nothing ! Comparing women to camels and donkeys ! In other words women are worthless creatures that could destroy your prayer because they are not worthy like man ...I get so angry reading koran and hadiths because it is absolute crap ! I now hate islam I truly do as it has a lot to answer for...

Thanx again Sheila and I hope all continue to read my posts I want to help the best I can have a happy healthy new year everyone xxx

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