I didn't see your post Melanie until today

Submitted by Sheila, Jan 2, 2019 at 18:37

I'm sorry how things turned out with him but the red flags are there. I was thinking as I'm reading in here tonight that women who have been involved with these type of men and have actually gotten first hand experience with them are not with the man anymore. I'm speaking of the ones I personally know of and from the forum also. Many who are only talking to them and they haven't spent any or no time with them think they are possibly passing up a great catch. You're one of the few who realized for yourself what's really happening. You were able to see the manipulation. You saw the red flags. I'm proud of you and I'm so gjad you are going to save yourself from much much deception and destruction. Those of us who have been on the forum for a long time have read lots of stories on here from men and women who were USED!! It's sad and it's sad how many stories are on here and there's still men and women who do not realize in enough time what type of person they are involved with. It's sinful in a Christian's eyes that it's fine for them to lie to a nonbeliever (not Muslim). In what I personally believe in m, that they will have to answer for all this either here or hereafter. That's my belief.

Post as much as you need to Melanie. You will survive this and be able to move forward. Fight and you will win the war. Wishing you and everyone one else on the forum much happiness, peace , and health in 2019.

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