I'm glad you posted Freebird :-)

Submitted by Sheila, Feb 2, 2019 at 09:03

Hi Freebird, I'm proud of you!! Keep your head up. You definitely did right about the situation. He would hurt you again. He must still be looking for someone to fulfill his dream to live in a western country. These people who do this are terrible human beings. There's not anything wrong with wanting a better life but they are doing it the wrong way. It's not right and it will come back on them one day. You deserve much better and I know you will have better too. Life is very short. We should never waste our time on people we know do not love us and are hurting us. We have to let them go. If you have to wonder and resort to the internet to try to figure out if someone loves you and are they deceiving you. Then I think you have your answer. When people love you and are not toxic, you know without a doubt their love for you. There's not a single person who deserves less. I wish some who come onto here could realize this. We need to help each other to heal so we can move on to the life in which we deserve. Thank you for sharing your story.I know it will be helpful to others. We're here for you and I send up lots of prayers. It's been quiet on here and sometimes I don't have time to check on here everyday, but I do make time to check as soon as I can. I know the others do too. Many hugs and much love to you Freebird and God bless all of you!! xoxoxo

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