No, don't trust him and run!

Submitted by Emoticon (Italy), Apr 4, 2019 at 05:22

Dear Ella,

There are so many red flags in your story... This man is 12 years younger than you? Has had 2 wives already? And after only a few months he doesn't seem as interested in you as before?

Please do not get fooled by his "love" declarations. They're good with words, but it's always lies. He only wants a help to raise his child and possibly an accommodation and your salary for both of them. If you marry him, then you'll become his "property" like a thing, and then the real abuse sets in.

Just escape and run away... At the age of 57, you don't need to win such a huge and tragic burden for free.

Please take care and stay safe!

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