Marriage date approaching

Submitted by Didi (United Kingdom), Jul 22, 2019 at 08:07

What a rollercoaster of emotions you go through to heak from these men. I'd almost forgot that our wedding date is coming up in 19 days! The facility called to confirm everything, and left a message on both our cell phones. He called me when he listened to the message. I hadn't bothered to check my messages.

He had the nerve to ask if I still wanted to get married. He said we could both fly in for a couple days, celebrate, then go back to our new homes and think. But he didn't want his child born out of wedlock. He asked if I'd consider moving back over in the next couple months to work on things and try to be a family.

He's been working and trying to prove himself. But will it last? He says yes. I want to believe him obviously because I love him and want the best for this baby.

For those that called it off, did you ever consider going back to give it another chance? And chance these guys change for the good? I'm so confused, every time I look at my dress and our pictures, I lose it and the tears coming gushing out..

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