HE TURNED OUT TO BE AN ASSHOLE, LIKE MOST.

Submitted by Jay (United States), Aug 2, 2019 at 16:14

I ran into this website because I had a gut feeling and I'm glad I did. I'm grateful I read your posts because it made me open my eyes on time. This "wonderful" guy that I wrote about yesterday asked me for 500 dollars today to help pay his moms hospital bill. HAHAHA! WTF! This was my response to him:

"I had already been warned that some Moroccan men are just looking for someone to send them money. I decided to give you the opportunity because I liked you even though deep inside I already knew that at any moment you were going to ask me for something.

But guess what? I am not so naive. I am an educated woman, with good values, and I am intelligent thank god. I do not work so hard to give my money away to anyone. In a weird way, I understand men like you because life in Morocco is difficult. But when I decide to be with someone, it is going to be because he loves me, not because he needs my money because I know my worth and I know what I deserve.

I really hope your mother is well and you are not only using this to get money. And if she really is sick, then I hope she gets better because a mother is everything in life. 

I wish you have a successful life. I believe you have the potential to improve yourself without asking anyone for anything. I enjoyed sharing 1 month with you, but every story has its end. Good Luck."

He acted like if he was surprised at everything I told him and said his mom is really sick and that I am wrong for thinking this way. Then he said he forgives me for everything I said, and that he hopes I will find a guy like him but he DOUBTS it. He says that it's MY loss and NOT HIS!

WTF AM I LOSING!? Hahahaaaaaaaa 

I didn't even reply.

WOW I FEEL pissed, upset, I want to cry, but I want to punch something, and at the same time I feel relieved that I did not take this any further. NOBODY is going to break me. I've been through enough shit in my life and I will be okay.

AND IF YOU ARE READING THIS AND ARE IN A SITUATION LIKE THIS. GET OUT! YOU CAN DO IT! IT'S BETTER TO BE ALONE THAN WITH SOMEONE WHO IS USING YOU. 

SPEND YOUR MONEY ON THINGS YOU LOVE, TRAVEL, BUY YOURSELF SOMETHING. DONT SPEND IT ON SOME ASSHOLE THAT IS USING YOU!!!! IF SOMEONE LOVES YOU THEY WILL NOT BE MAKING YOU FEEL LIKE SHIT OR ASK YOU FOR MONEY. YOU DO NOT OWE ANYONE ANYTHING.

As for me....if love comes to me one day, great! It will be with someone who is worth it. If not, then I don't care! I will travel, and make my own memories. I don't need anyone.

Good luck everyone.

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