you definately need to disappear

Submitted by Chelsea, Aug 23, 2019 at 16:47

Don't take lightly any threats. Seems he has gotten into your mind. No mercy for these predators. NO MERCY. Yes Lou. No contact is the answer. With that also....you are going to have to force yourself not to look for him and reprogram your mind in a clear direction that will benefit you physically, mentally and emotionally. I sense in your postings that he does have a hold on you and it is a curse you need to break free from. Most of us have been under the same curse. All that sweet talk and they know that you are an empath and easy prey. It is time to take back control of everything in your life. Rise above all this drama. Get your bearings. Watch on youtube about honor killings and also Robert Spencer...and read Daniel Pipes stories. These guys are not making up these stories. Break away and set yourself free again. Get away from his influence in your life. Believe me....he will be ok. None of us are Mother Teresa nor called to be. You have to do the work of PUTTING HIM OUT OF YOUR LIFE. You can block and ignore as no contact but emotionally you are going to have to help yourself and that means a total mind set of NO. No contact. No looking him up. No worrying about his situations. NO NO NO. These men if you can call them that are desperate, losers, leeches and will suck you dry until you don't even know your own soul. I can say from experience....I cut it off completely. It took some time but I knew I was not myself or being true to myself and once every six months he would send a FB message from a new acct until finally one day I said. Excuse me...I believe you have messaged the wrong person...I do not know who you are and that was the truth. I was in love with the fantasy he created. Then a few months later I left FB. Yes it hurt but my sanity and life and all the people around me that I care for were at risk from this deadbeat romance liar. Yes you have to break it and that will require you to do some emotional work on yourself. Remove all reminders and be strong. After you break it....you will be a stronger woman and able to guard your heart. Even though you are an empath, you will be able to save that energy for yourself and others around you that have your best interests at heart. It is OK and in this case a necessity to be tough.

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