They always pursue

Submitted by Lina (United Kingdom), Aug 30, 2019 at 15:47

"They give you your own version of what love is because they get deep enough into your mind."

This is exactly what they do and they also bait and switch. As Chelsea mentioned, they flip the script as soon as you fly out to see them, or in your case, started to get emotionally involved. They have a goal in mind, and it could be obtaining a Visa, spreading Islam, gifts or even some kind of halal friends with benefits.

None of these things are so easy to get, so they find out what makes the ladies tick. I wouldn't be surprised if their own female relatives give them a few tips and tricks... how else would they know so much about the female mind...?

Nine out of ten times they're always the ones approaching us, which is what makes it worse. I've pursued guys in the past which might not have ended so well, but the ball was always in my court. When they pursue us we assume they must really be into us. And they are, but for their own twisted benefit. They get us when we're bored, lonely, vulnerable, post breakup... and they know it.

The part that you quoted from the interview is a typical sociopathic response... it's also a lazy one. Blame, blame, blame - that's all these people do. Nothing is ever their own doing... it's either sheitan that made them do it, or it's us LOL.

Have you noticed they rarely apologise?

His poor excuse for a logic makes no sense... a professional, salaried male escort is the one providing the lonely, lovesick woman with temporary companionship. When his time's up... the fantasy stops. This is NOT what these loverats are doing at all. They are using the most sacred emotion - love - to manipulate a world of physical or financial benefits out of us. A paid gigolo is selling a temporary dream... a loverat is selling a lie under the guise of "forever".

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