omg Your husband is a scumbag

Submitted by jessica (canada) (Canada), Sep 7, 2019 at 15:55

Arisa so sorry what you have been through your husband is a scumbag hes abusive to you. no wife or any human should be beaten and punched and pinched and locked in the room. the husband of yours is disgusting. this is totally not love if he loves you he should never do this to you. im so happy you went back to japan even asian culture no one ever hit their wives. im asian too and asian men are so respectful to their wives. the question is i dont know how long you met your husband and was he like this in the beginning or he show his true colour after marriage. did he ask you anything before marriage like money, gifts, etc. im so sure he is only after you to get visa and residency in your country it is very clear from what your have said in your post. you should tell him go to hell and even japan is not going to welcome this idiotic behaviour of him.

i always say woman do not pay for love. men provide everything in arab world just like asian. woman dont need to work if she works she just want to spend on her own money. men provide for the children and family if he doesnt do that its not a husband material and should not get marry to them. what he told you is all WRONG wife dont need to pay for the rent or anything. hes lying to you. WOMAN SHOULDNT HAVE TO PAY FOR LOVE period. i been with mohamed since 2014 and he never once ask me to buy him anything or tell me his family is sick or needs anything from me because he know i dont falls for these crap. i know mena men too much. how they works, how they think, how they behave etc. he cannot lie to me anything because i can see through him. im happy with my life and i travel all the time .just came back from a great trip to france and europe and morocco a short stays there this time. i think to be with a mena men shouldnt be rushing to married him because you dont really knows what's hess like because most women know the man not too long and jumped over quickly and married him and get him to come to your country as fast as possible they are using you just for visa only and pretended to love you. that is the reason why me and mohamed is still good because he know im not rushing to get marry and he cant use me for visa im not falling for it. but i will go and see him once a year and the time is right i will marry him he know i have no rush im happy with my life my work, my life, my girls, my money and family. i heard so many horror stories on here i just dont want anything horrible to me then again we are still good after so many years dont wants to jinx it by marrying him yet.

i think other woman can help you more because they been through hell from their horrible stories and are back on thier feet again. im so happy you are back in japan and he wont be able to hurt you anymore just cut him off your life completely and tell him to F off. tell him he dosent know how to love and doesnt deserve 1 minute of your time . kick him to the curb and say bye forever to him. cut off all social media from him and all contacts so no way he can try to contact you. change your number and take a trip all over japan and pamper yourself now. get this scumbag out of your mind . all the best to you.

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