Robin, I am where you are..

Submitted by Didi (Italy), Sep 10, 2019 at 04:02

I'm so sorry this happened. You're like me.. you need to understand why someone would do this. How someone could do this. I used to look at my ex and wonder how he could sleep at night knowing what he was doing.

They rationalize to themselves that it will be our fault when it's over.. we'll cause the breakup, not them. So they convince themselves that they are in it for the right reasons. And that we should expect problems and even divorce since we're so different. But they lie to the end and will never admit they truly were scammers.

My ex even tried to point out his friends that were happily married to European women. I quickly pointed out that the European women mostly were Moroccan women with European nationality; the rest were just buying their time until they got PR, then the divorce would come!

These disgusting pigs are now using babies to get PR. They find the poorest, most unattractive European women and impregnate them. No need to marry because once the baby is born, they use that as their step to get PR. Never having to in introduce or involve family. And within months of getting the PR, they find a Moroccan woman to marry! And could care less about that baby after that, because that baby is born out of wedlock to an infidel, so it doesn't matter.

So they are the ones truly screwed up. They are so desperate to fit the mold their families create due to culture and religion. That's why they are so mean and evil. You can get through this, stay strong! Each day, take it as it comes. Just know it may have broken you, but you can put the pieces together again. I'm still trying to myself..

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