One day you will realize

Submitted by Ayla (United States), Sep 16, 2019 at 20:40

You were in love with the IDEA of him in YOUR HEAD, the FANTASY life YOU created in Your head. Not one action from the men shows anything worthy of the time, effort and love we put into the relationship. Not one of our stories has true love, truth, faithfulness, honesty or peace. The only love is one-sided, the love from us women. We are either secrets or we are known but will always be an outsider. There is no benefit from the relationships except the IDEAS and FANTASIES we create to make ourselves feel we have someone or something that we don't. The men give nothing but words that never match their actions. Empty words and maybe some sex, which fyi if you have sex with them and are not married then you will never be their wife or get their respect. Sex before marriage and virginity is a big deal to them. That's a fact.

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