Jessica, thanks for your support

Submitted by Robin (United States), Dec 4, 2019 at 20:16

I didn't have him checked out, but as soon as I got home my doctor checked ME out (I informed her about getting married). He was clean, I guess, because I didn't get any STDs, though I did get a raging UTI. It was because he was so rough with me, and caused tearing (I bled all over the sheets). My poor body wasn't prepared for the onslaught because I hadn't been intimate with anyone in more than 16 years. He knew this, but did he care? Apparently not. At the time I put it down to inexperience, because the whores were more than ten years prior and (according to him) he had slept with no one since until me. Sex with whores does not equal sexual experience, unfortunately, and it's doubtful said whores taught him anything in the way of consideration for his partner. Basically, he just knew where to stick "it," whether or not I was ready. Since initially he otherwise seemed caring and considerate, it didn't seem like a big deal at the time. I know for a fact he was HIV negative several months ago because of him accidentally sharing a photo of his test results. The reason for getting the test was so he could apply for asylum in South Korea based on religious persecution. Ha ha. I guess his application was denied (go figure) because he's back in Morocco now, I think. I won't go into why I think this - let's just say that he has forgotten about other things that he is inadvertently sharing with me. I'm not about to let on, because I like to know where he is. I don't trust him for a minute.

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