Trying my hardest for my daughter and twin grandsons

Submitted by Sandra (United Kingdom), Jan 10, 2020 at 13:32

My daughter met and married a Muslim kirdish man,..they married within three weeks of meeting,she was 31 never married no children,she is white British,I wasn't aware of the marriage or invited,and none of her family or siblings knew either. This really upset me and I told him so,.he then stopped her having contact with all of her family,.only 2 months later she told me behind his back she was expecting twins,..the twins turned out to be boys,I wouldn't have no for an answer this was my daughter and these were my grandchildren,.and I made sure I would get a say in it,is made my views quite clear to him,he had married an English woman a Christian at that ,and it wasn't going all his way and his family's,..further down the pregNancy he laid his hands on her,and she came home,but he decided to follow her,I think because I have been single for 9 years that he thought he had the right to walk straight into my home and start disrespect me,and put demands on my daughter,.I've been a victim of abuse in both physical and verbal,.but I refuse to be a victim, so I took him outside and gave him the same back both verbal and physical,..she eventually went back and I was banned from seeing my grandsons,.he had no choice,.she never goes out of her home and he even goes shopping and she's cooking everything he eats,.I am worried she doesn't tell me the truth ,any advice

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