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Submitted by Jo (United States), Feb 19, 2020 at 22:01

I am currently involved with a pakistani man and I live in the U.S. I have only known him 8 months but only seeing each other 4 months. he is really pushing marriage saying he is the only one out of 5 kids not married and his mom is pushing it. he currently lives in dubai I do have my suspicions I am not sure what his true intentions are. he says he is deeply in love with me and only wants to be with me for the rest of our lives. I have two daughters so I am leary about all this. I am not sure what to do either because like your situation he lies to me and plays mind games. he will block me when he gets mad or drunk and calls me names and then acts like nothing happens the next day. He is good looking , smart and very charming. there are so many similarities to your situation. I am confused!

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