Thanks Lina

Submitted by N and S (Germany), Jun 10, 2020 at 11:47

Hi Lina, thank you for your comment and encouragement. I am trying to move forward and forget all the bad things in the past.
Yes, he bruised my ego by telling wrong details about our story. I dont know what for? if his wife did accept him and turned to insult and give all mistakes to my shoulders. Maybe because he felt ashamed and afraid I would let everybody know the truth. (!)
He did ask me to comvert before but not clear. He even asked me to convert to Christian because I am atheist, Yes, he lived a "double" life. And when thigns break down, he chose to turn his back on me to protect his face, his family and his wife ( which he insisted he only engaged, and that they married through paper and he never touches her !!!! and I did believe)
Now I know, as you said, he is a typical womaniser. He also admited. He said, he only needed me for sex ( in 19 months) and I am the only one who wants more from this
There was times, right, I seeked for my validation and tried to explain I am not like what he said, I am not a crazy old woman who sticked with him.
I am 34... I am independent with my finance.... although now I can not earn much money like before due to my daughter and the Corona Virus. But....!
I am just hurt because me and my small mouse are denied, heartless denied after many months together.
I just think, we all can end a relationship in a normal way. But maybe he started it with a absnormal way so how can he ended it in a more " cultural way". Those muslim men just dont repsect women and their family let them do it.
Yes, you are right. All I can do is walk away with my ego and tried to forgive and forget.

I just hope, what he threatened me is only to make my mouth shut...!
And unfair is such stories happen everywhere in this world when those men still exist and use and left weak women....
And we can not do anything??????????????

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