I dont know what to do

Submitted by Karrisa (United States), Jun 15, 2006 at 22:32

I married a man from Turkey this year. I am back in the US and working...but to put a long story short.. I found out that two days after I left Turkey he had gotten on the internet and made a new name and was talking to women that live in my area of the country. He told me that he was just bored and that he didnt want to do anything with any of them, I am really afraid now because I love him soo much and yet he did this. His family is really wonderful people and they accepted me or at least it seemed that way to me. I lived with his family for 2 months..I dont know if he is just playing or if he intends to come here and leave me for someone else. I guess I want to beleive the best of him because I love him and he swears on all his family that he will never do a wrong thing again.

I am also afraid now because he wants me to come back there and live. I have heard stories of women that go there only to be murdered or forced into prostitution. I really dont know what to do. When I was there he treated me soo well and I felt like he really loved me. Please give me your insight to this. I am soo desparate now.

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