advice to non-muslim women marrying muslim men

Submitted by sara (United States), Aug 22, 2006 at 07:05

i married a muslim man in istanbul turkey.t his woman came to visit us he claimed she was his cousin,but when she came he took his arms from around me and put them around her,and played with her hair,and kissed her bye on lips.now muslims are close with their cousins like this? he has her saved on his cell as "wonderful" .he lied to me to dance with her at a married party .he made me feel so stupid that day when he was sitting on the couch with me and left me at the other end of the couch to show affection towards her.and he joked"i want bring a woman to usa".he said omg her father would kill me if i tried to have sex with her. maybe so,but not kill him if he married her first.and he said he grew up with her from when she was baby,she 19,he 27.what i should think of all this?

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