kexia- please read what I wrote to Laura above...

Submitted by concerned (United States), Sep 13, 2006 at 17:31

Kexia, it sounds like you are happy and optimistic. I hope you are asking the right questions and that you are giving very careful consideration to decisions you might make that could affect you for hte rest of your life. Please read what you wrote about 'second wife' who is 'jealous'... that does ot sound like a good situation and I think you should consider the possibility that if there are second wives in this family, you might be in a similar situation yourself, as one of several wives!

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